
Your toolbox of listening skill

Listen to the small things to prevent them becoming big things
Want to add a caption to this image? Click the Settings icon. Particularly children with their parents, if a persons small everyday...

Listening is a great opportunity to learn and grow yourself.
Sometimes giving advice when somebody shares is what is needed. But often by listening effectively offers the person the empowerment to...

Break the ice by doing something together
A previous post talked about ensuring you appear available, which means not disappearing into your phone while you wait. However,...

Listen with all of you!
Only 80% of listening comes from 'words'. The rest comes from body language, empathy, connectivity. If you are looking at the tv or your...

Don't rush a person to share
One of the fundamental tools in counselling is time and space. Space for the client to settle their feelings sufficiently to find words...

How can you be listening too another if you are busy talking?
The key to showing a person that you are listening is too not keep talking over them. They don't need to hear lots of advice at this...

Ask the person "How would you like me to help?"
It is very easy to get distracted by your own need and self pressure to fix a persons problem. This can block any capacity you have to...














